A Glasgow woman lost £17,000 in a romance scam, leading to a suspected heart attack. She met the scammer online.
She built trust with him over months, talking often and video chatting which seemed to prove his identity. She then sent him money he requested.
Alison feels foolish for trusting him and wanting to help someone. This situation has hurt her mentally and she even had a possible heart attack; it’s been a nightmare.
Last May, he wanted to meet in Ireland. By August, he claimed his bank failed and he needed £17,000 for job machinery. She sent the money after he sent details.
Then, he asked for £7,000 more, saying customs held him and took his passport. Alison contacted the bank and police; her life feels ruined now, and she feels stuck.
The app lets women message first, which is how she liked him and he replied. After a couple of months, he claimed to have financial issues and needed cash for machinery.
He begged, showing bank and passport details, so Alison sent the money. He claimed he would meet her soon, then said customs held him and he needed £7,000 for his release.
She refused, and he left a voicemail claiming they were beating him. He still contacts her, but she screenshots his messages and ignores him.
Alison is getting support from a group and she borrowed money from friends. The man still asks for more money, and authorities want people to be careful online and get assistance if you suspect fraud.
Romance scams involve faking romantic interest. Scammers use flattery to build trust, and some even use blackmail with photos or videos.
Anyone can be a victim as scammers can trick anyone. People often feel too embarrassed to get help after it happens.
A woman from Advice Direct Scotland offered advice, saying romance scams happen throughout the year. Be extra careful before Valentine’s Day, as scammers target people who want a romantic connection.
Fraudsters find targets online, using dating sites and social media. Be careful online and never share your financial data. If you are unsure, check them out. Romance scams cause emotional and financial harm and victims feel deceived and isolated. Don’t feel ashamed if this happens to you and get free advice from experts if you need help.